Okay, actually, this can be a espresso date spanning November, December, January, and the very starting of February.
I form of can’t imagine it’s been that lengthy – I like writing these posts and look ahead to sharing them each month. But as normal, life has been very lifey, and Sugar Free January has been very scrumptious, and all of the issues have simply been form of intense, and the opposite day Eman on our group was like, “hey, we got an email about the coffee dates – are you still doing them?” after which I form of needed to do a double take when realized it had been a number of months since I simply sat down for no different purpose than to say hello and join.
So in any case. I’m right here, with my decaf Americano with heavy whipping cream as a result of I had some leftover from this magnificence and it’s quite simple but in addition looks like luxurious. Very luscious and warming and wealthy.
What are you consuming? What have you ever been as much as? Any SFJ-finishers or recipe favorites as of these days? Let’s catch up.
The Big Thing: We Moved!
In our final espresso date, I discussed that we had purchased a home. Now on this espresso date, I’m right here to inform you that it’s official. WE MOVED. We reside in a brand new home now.
I’m additionally right here to inform you that we’re closing on our previous home subsequent week, and in essentially the most charmed flip of occasions, our very excellent associates are the consumers! ❤️We really feel so fortunate to know that these superb people will now make this home and this neighborhood their very own.
The transferring course of has been – properly, actually, I believe the truth that I haven’t finished a espresso date in virtually three months is an efficient indicator of the way it’s been. It’s been superb, emotional, tough, and all-consuming.
My mantra as we get settled has been: “Good Enough.”
Like, the containers within the basement are overflowing with unorganized contents of Solvi’s babyhood and Bjork’s random assortment of hardly ever-used instruments and my highschool swim group memorabilia, and you recognize what? For now, for, like, the following yr perhaps? er, 5 years? that’s okay. Can’t do all of it proper now. It’s ok.
If you’ve discovered the key sauce to transferring and settling in to a brand new house with out your life additionally feeling like a small twister… communicate up.
A Reusable Coffee Cup
This is the present my Work Party Secret Santa obtained me (thanks, Emily!) and it has gotten a lot use. I adore it and would extremely suggest it.
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It’s cute, compact sufficient to go in my backpack, and extra nice to carry onto than a paper cup as a result of it’s good and toasty-heat.
Also, it’s not an in a single day earth saver, however it has stored 7 disposable cups out of the rubbish within the month of January and sure I did hold monitor of the precise quantity as a result of LITTLE THINGS MATTER. I don’t keep in mind to convey it with me each time, however I keep in mind it loads of instances, and I really feel like that is the way it needs to be finished. Baby steps to raised.
Do you might have any child steps to raised? For your well being, work, surroundings, and so forth? Baby steps are simpler than large steps. Maybe I can borrow some.
And Now I’m a Creative Director
Up till now I’ve finished, like, 98% of the pictures that you just see right here on POY. I like pictures. It feels very private and could be laborious to share that with somebody who isn’t… properly, me. But it’s a brand new yr and I’m prepared to present some issues a bit of pleasant shake-up.
So this month we employed photographers (our associates!) to do a photograph shoot with us for some POY recipes. As in, I didn’t take the photographs!
I obtained to prep and prepare dinner meals, styling it, and assist with edits, however I used to be not truly standing behind the digital camera. Instead of being all of the issues, I obtained to restrict my function to simply “Creative Director.”
A) It was SO FUN.
B) It was much less demanding.
C) Can we hold doing this please?
Cheesy-sounding however truly essential problem for you primarily based alone private expertise with this – is there one thing in your life you can launch and let another person take care of for you? Something you can rent for? Or perhaps simply one thing that you just’re holding tightly to you can let go of?
This was my factor this month and I had loads of fears with it as a result of change is difficult and all that, however dang, one spherical in and it feels actually good.
Traveling with Toddlers
… is a marathon!
We went to Florida final week for a number of days with Bjork’s mother and father, and I can not even start to explain to you the quantity of sheer anxiousness I had strolling my very fiesty and impartial 17-month-previous down the jetbridge and onto a small, crowded, enclosed airplane for the primary time. And getting delayed FOUR HOURS on the gate didn’t assist the trigger.
But the lil child Solvs did fantastically. She fussed, however she didn’t scream. She resisted, however she didn’t soften down. She was busy, however she stayed typically contained. She obtained compliments from seat neighbors after each flights which felt just like the equal of receiving an Olympic gold medal though I had completely no management over any of it.
I watched so many YouTube and Instagram movies and skim so many weblog posts on touring with toddlers – are different individuals like this? I believe I’d simply be form of additional on this method.
Some issues we did:
- Stuffed a tablet field with roughly 200 small snacks
- Packed tons of model new toys that she had by no means seen (or that we simply pulled out of her toy bins a number of weeks prematurely in order that they *felt* new)
- Packed tons of random objects from round our home – ribbons, paint pattern playing cards, tissue paper, keys, punch playing cards, and so forth.
- Bookmarked tons of movies of her and Sage
Worth mentioning: we did should straight-up go away a restaurant one night time. Like, pack up our simply-delivered meals, down the drinks, and file out the door in a really loud stroll of disgrace because of an irreversible meltdown, so it’s not like we got here out of the journey unscathed, okay? Don’t be getting the mistaken concept right here.
Traveling with toddlers or children? Horror tales? Victories? Yay or nay?
Speaking of Sun
This winter has been tough. The really feel-bads have been actually working rampant for me this month because of the longest stretch of cloudy days in what, 70 years or one thing?
Being within the Florida solar for 4 days was like… it was like turning into a brand new individual a bit of bit. It felt like a reminder that there’s life on the market, issues are thriving, the solar is shining, faces are heat, crops are inexperienced and rising, birds are singing.
This morning as I appeared out the window and surveyed the flat, gray-brown-white suburban panorama throughout me, I texted Bjork that it’s superb how rapidly I begin to really feel blah once more after I’m again on this.
We would in all probability by no means transfer away from Minnesota as a result of that is the place all our household and associates reside, and we’ve got a wholesome attachment to the nice components of winter, and I believe what we’d acquire in heat climate, we’d lose in shut connections and emotional satisfaction. But it’s only a LITTLE BIT TEMPTING RIGHT NOW, MINNESOTA.
I do know loads of you perceive this hardcore. Maybe some of you might have even truly made the transfer? Talk to me.
Sage simply needs you to keep in mind that your persons are the principle factor. She sits right here with Solvi virtually daily and waits for me, after which Bjork, to return house from work, after which she will get the zoomies and greets us like we’re the perfect factor in the entire extensive world.
I believe there’s a life lesson in there someplace.
Okay, February (+ Jan + Dec) espresso date. There it’s! I’m sorry it took me three months to make this one occur.
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